Woke up this morning, and all I could think about after I said a quick prayer was getting up to go do a few stretches and a round of jogging, as if that would have burnt out the calories I accumulated yesterday from two bottles of Sprite, chicken Suya and a few pancakes I had all an hour before I slept.
Ok, so I got geared up, no trainers though i.e. Still at the leisure level, where you still jog with your bathroom slippers...*covers face while laughing*
I start walking to get warmed up. I see a friend of mine who consistently comes out and a few other regular faces. As I began walking, I see a good looking girl, with gorgeous legs, nice complexion, fleshy and voloptuous in all the needed areas and my mind began to wonder.
I know how many times I have talked down on my self in front of others, calling myself fat and immediately it feels like I have given them a licence to call me likewise (I weigh 65kg...or at least the last time I checked).
I'm yet to understand why I'm still so weight sensitive. Why everytime a person tells me, 'ahh; you are getting fat', why I cringe inside?
Truth, is the media has greatly influenced our minds and the ideals we hold. From our taste in fashion, hairstyles, decor and how we define being successful,beautiful or sexy,e.t.c.
It screams to us that we are either thin or slim or your FAT and ugly.
This is not an attempt to console anyone, but a call to challenge you! There's nothing better than feeling really confident with how you look.
If you feel fat, make effort and watch your weight, but don't make it a do or die affair! If there's something I have observed it's that, most ladies are disturbed about their weight not because of their personal feelings but because they attribute their being physically attractive as a major determinant that would make their boyfriends or husbands find them alluring.
If a guy doesn't appreciate you as big as you are, he wouldn't when you are slim.
There are guys that have preferences for plus size ladies. I just need you to know that you have been tricked to believe that you are just a body of liquid fat, but I came to tell you, that you are NOT!
Who says being skinny is sexy? Who says its hot? I know so many thin people looking for a bit of a weight, if its so nice why are they not enjoying it?
Work on yourself, wear good clothes and extricate yourself from vain friends! (Its easy offering advice, I pray I take this one too).
Observe the kind of people you talk to. If they always complain about being fat and how ugly they feel, run away and surround yourself with positive people.
Start a strict diet, cutting out on calories...yet take it easy on yourself!
True beauty really does lie on the inside!
Your just as beautiful as you let your body believe.
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
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6 comments:
I love it! Bravo!!! When we begin to love ourselves, then nothing else matters :) Great read love!
Thanks for sharing!
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