Α friend of mine was in α fix.
She was dating α cultist...
We,her commitee of friends tried to bail her out,
everything we did,failed!
She was too stuck to let go.
Movies have cornered us into believing this is true and really it is.
Α seemingly good girl with α sound background always somewhere along the line,
lets go of the good guy everyone approves of and falls head over heels in love with the bad guy.
Why?
The guy necessarily might not be α rascal but as opposed to the nice and very sweet guy;
Who calls frequently...
Calls back when you hang up...
Apologizes when your at fault...
Forgives and loves unconditionally...
Is easily predictable...
So why then would i want α guy who;
I'm only an option to...
In the long run,he has nothing to lose...
Hangs up whenever he likes...
Talks to Me without regard...
Makes me feel like i'm α pest...
Can someone tell Me why???
Interest.
Bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things.
They have strayed from the stereotype.
They do what they want.
They go where they want.
They answer to no one.
They are fascinating.
Summary is that they are Spontaneous.
Bad guys are confident and self assured.
Plus bad guys are a challenge.
We all love a challenge,someone that keeps us coming back for more.
If something is a challenge, the end results must surely be worthwhile, right?
We all go to great lengths to solve mysteries.
Why he behaves like this, why he talks like that.e.t.c.
Once they've conquered the challenge,
they don't want to let go as it makes for an exciting ride.
The thrill and exasperation we get from the thought of losing α bad guy.
(...lolll...we girls get α knack from things too o!),
the greater the efforts put in to keep him.
And there may be a lesson here.
Just imagine What you will have if you combine these facets?
Power, strength of character, confidence,an immensely interesting personality equals sexiness.
That is exactly what the bad boy is..!
so i'm not surprised that the 'typical' bad guy often gets the gal.
E nor mean to say we like am or we wan't to be treated poorly,
neither does it mean that it is in itself a good thing,
but raw attraction can be nature's way.
I am not in any way suggesting that you should all be Mr. Bad Guy.
Not at all.
What I am saying is that there are lessons to be learned here.
What is attractive can be added to your arsenal of dating weaponry.
If you can increase your confidence levels,
get your career on the right tracks...
excel in what you do and be your own man...
then you'll get that bad boy confidence and that attitude will boost your attractiveness.
You don't need to smoke,be an alcoholic or α womanizer to be bad,
but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions,
a little less available...as they say "less is more"
Keep her pinning for more and she's hooked forever.
Don't try to get all mushy mushy on us, its nice to be doted on but at times α little rigidity is what keeps us,
be a little more enigmatic.
This will boost our interest.
Some people argue that it's the "good" in the bad guy they fall in love with).
(NOTE: the use of "bad" guy is merely metaphorical...)
Suffice to say...
Amidst all this psychological talk...
I'd still prefer my man to be the good guy o!
I'm not up for α man i have to impress or spill tears over.
Abeg...i nor dey "my yam nor done".
Yes..i enjoy spontaneity once in α while but α man who can love selflessly without hurting me has got my love anytime, anyday.
You shouldn't play mind and heart games on Me in the name of trying to keep Me o!
For me, good is sexy too.
Because,i just wonder why na the ones when they make us cry nai we dey appreciate more?
Hmmm...na wa o!
Anyways,
Different strokes for different folks.
Na my own be this, you talk your own.
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
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Good write-up. You couldnt have penned it any better.. This piece to me takes the gr8est prize..fine one!
CHUKA...(aka sturz)ned it any better.. This piece to me takes the gr8est prize..fine one!
CHUKA...(aka sturz)Good write-up. You couldnt have penned it any better.. This piece to me takes the gr8est prize..fine one!
CHUKA...(aka sturz)ned it any better.. This piece to me takes the gr8est prize..fine one!
CHUKA...(aka sturz)
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